I have kept the e-mails and would be happy to provide them to anyone from the EEOC or your lawyer. Don't believe anything you are promised--I was promised many things, many times, and it was all hot air. They will never change anything unless they are forced to, and it just wasn't worth it to me. Some good guidance for you is here: http://www.equalrights.org/publications/kyr/shwork.asp